My parents don't know I'm pregnant? Help!?

A few weeks ago there was this party I had to go to but my parents wouldn't let me go so I snuck out. Then I met some boys and started flirting with them then stuff got more serious. So presently I am Pregnant how do I tell my parents that I will soon be a mother when I'm only 17! How do I tell them?

You need to tell them as soon as possible. First, get them in a good mood. Clean the house, do your homework, etc. Sit them down after dinner, and just say, “I’m pregnant.” it’s best to just flat out tell them. They can help you get the prenatal care that you need. You have to avoid alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes. Not even over the counter medications are safe for your baby. Make an appointment with a gynecologist. You need to be on a good prenatal vitamin. You need a pap smear and blood tests done. You will have to pee in a cup at your first appointment. I hope you have health insurance, if not then you need to see a case worker and apply for Medicaid. The doctor can make you an appointment with a case worker. Your mom can help you take care of your kid or you could give it up for adoption. If you decide to give the baby up, you will have no rights to the child. There are open adoptions where you can still visit the baby and receive pictures. These open adoptions aren’t legally enforced in most states so, the adoptive parents don’t have to let you see the baby. You need to grow up if you are going to have a child. I know when I was 17 I was too immature to deal with the consequences so, you need to think hard about what is best for you and the baby. Keep it or give it up? It’s up to you. Once, you have a baby you will have to put it’s needs before your wants and needs. You have to have a babysitter Everytime you want to go out. New born babies need to be fed every 3 to 4 hours. So, you will be sleep deprived for a good 3 months at the least. The baby’s diaper will need to be changed at least 8 times a day sometimes more than that (every baby is different). Breast feeding is best for the baby but, if you decide to feed it formula your baby may develop colic. Babies cry non stop when they have colic; there stomaches hurt. You will be up all night when it is sick. Then you will have to work and finish school. You need to go to college or get a certificate for a better job. You cannot raise a baby on minimum wage without help. It’s impossible trust me. So, you will have work, school, and baby to take care of. No more handsome guys, no more parties, no more childhood. Are you ready to make these sacrifices? There are a lot of parenting books out there; I suggest you read as much and try to learn as much as you can.

Well i had a baby at 14 so dont listen to these people. Just think to yourself, do i really want a baby? Can i handle a baby? Will the father be in the picture? Consider all the options. Theres abortion, adoption, keeping it. I strongly disagree with abortion but if it feels right do it. You could put it up for adoption. Theres closed adoption- you have no contact with the baby. Semi-open- you and the babies parents build a structure and you get to see it and recieve pics. Theres open adoption- where you are very much in the babies life. Or you can keep it. Thats only if your mature enough to keep it. And feeling really horny and having unprotected sex with a guy you barely no isnt mature. But you have time to get more mature.
Ways you can tell ur parents:

* Jus go up and tell then when their in a good mood
* Leave a note for them to find and leave for a friends house
* Have another person tell them

How to take care of a baby. Trust me you’ll find out. Right now u need to take care of urself and get to the doctor and afterwards get on some birth control. I did this at 14 you can do this at 17.

well how can you not have haters your real young a baby yourself I know by being young this will hurt your parents know matter how you tell them you need to think about how you wanna say it you should have waited until your much older i am 41 years old and dealing with the loss of my baby girl in 1991 the boy may have been handsome but will this boy be there for you or take you to maury to prove this baby is his there’s alot to think about you don’t take care of a cafe baby you take care of a baby either way you are young and your future is gone all because you wanted sex you cant even spell handsome much less a baby the boy may have been that but you need to watch maury and see what women go threw your still a baby you should be thinking about school and life we cant tell you what to say you gotta say it yourself

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Mom dad, I made a really dumb mistake a few weeks ago and before I say anything, I want you to know that I’m sorry. I snuck out the other day to that party you said I couldn’t go to… and now I’m pregnant. I don’t know what to do.

You had no good reason whatsoever. That is just an excuse. Not being a hater that’s just the truth. This is your fault and is your responsibility. If I were you I would tell the truth. That is the best way, who knows, maybe they will help you with the child. It’s better than lying. That would only make it worse.

Tell your parents. If u dont then, if they fin d out, youll be in bigger trouble! Its okay but think twice about gettin rid of the baby cuz u dont wanna kill a baby but if u do then everyone will understand that it is hard to take car of a baby at 17 years old.

Hey chica
I had that happen too! Except he’s my bff…which still isn’t ok. You have no choice..tell them or …? What are you gonna do? You need to be honest. I told my mom and she wasn’t really mad,..understanding. Unlike me..not many are lucky like that. You need to just tell them straight up. They will be mad, upset, etc etc. That’s inevitable. Before you get mad, make sure you can stay somewhere just in case they kick you out temporarily. I’m sorry girl…if you need anything, I’m here. I’ll follow you to stick w/ your questions.

You are not alone in this.
I’ll offer as much advice that I can.

Best wishes,

Make smarter decisions.
Dont get pregnant if you dont even know how to take care of a baby.
and being “really horny” isnt a good excuse.
give the baby up for adoption.
youre still a baby yourself.

Those aren’t good reasons to irresponsibly get pregnant. Just tell them that you disappointed them and that you are pregnant.

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