Since Monday this week I've been having these strange dreams, the dream always includes myself being killed by my current boyfriend. 2 of the worst I've had are:
1)We're both standing in a lake of water that reaches our waists when he begins to push me under the water and hold me there. I manage to get…
Your dreams do not appear to be from real fear of such a thing happening, but from feelings of your boyfriend possibly not always being a supportive match for you.
That may seem harsh – and the dreams likely do exaggerate some deep inner feelings you have come to have. None the less, we do discover things about others in close relationships that may be less that sterling. Perhaps he is a good fellow who seems supportive much of the time – but do you always have a sense that you really share the same values, or that he is willing to fully support your own dreams and hopes?
These are things to consider as they may indeed affect some of your most hidden feelings about the relationship. Sometimes such things are hard to face, but we are better off looking closely at all that affects our relationships and then making mature judgments. That is not to say that there is anything about your boyfriend that would necessarily be so bad as to end the relationship. It could simply be that there are aspects of the relationship that need to be dealt with – perhaps you have needs to be met, or perhaps you simply have to learn to accept some things.
Those judgments are yours to make as you reflect on how the dreams leave you feeling and what the causes may be as you consider the dreams in context of your relationship. Think these observations over – they will likely help in your understanding of the dream.
“I think the dreams are either A. a warning to break up and get out now, only because you don’t agree with eachother. I since that your strong willed but i also gather from the first dream that he is too, and maybe even stuborn. I think i first dream’s interpratation is that you constantly bumping heads or disagreing, he usually verbally has to have the last word, so after attempting twice, your more matture attitude lets him have win, by giving up!
I think the second one is your inner-subconscience having fear or doubt that if you were ever in danger if he would ever protect you.
I think you may question this, but instaead of talking about these things with him, they stay bottled up inside your mind where you tend to make sense of: or play out these ideas in your dreams. Thats why in the 2nd dream “You slipped on you own, and he did reach and grab you, Natural trust in your partner wouldn’t have your shouting “Plaese don’t let go” rather than remaining quiet as he pulls you to saftey.” When you get face to face with him there is no facial expression at all, which tells me that he’s not agressive, or mad at you. That the reason why he’s face is blank is because these are just little scenarios put together by your sleeping mind and because you possibaly have doubts on what he may do for you, or how he may fend or protect you in the future. If you think i may be on to something i ssuggest you talk to him about things you may feel. and where you both stand.
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If i where you i would just leave her alone. Maybe contact her a couple days a week just to see how she’s doing i mean 3 years you have to care about her and i know you miss talking to her. Let her see what you really meant to her. If she misses you she WILL find a way to contact you, And in doing that it will show you how much she really cares by calling you just to see why you have called her as much.
Being a girl myself as long as you chase her the more she is going to run. She told you she didn’t know what she wanted. so in other words she needs time, so give her what she wants give her that space she asked for. Show her you care by giving her that. If it is meant to be she will come back to you. Everything happens for a reason. I know all this is hard to do but it does work it worked in my situation. Im glad i did all this. Besides doing all this will show you if it IS meant to be or not. Good luck and i hope everything works out the way you want it to, and if not then i wish you the best of luck starting something new
It could mean a few things.
He is intimidating you. You feel pressured by him, either by something that he wants you to do and your afraid of what he will think if you keep saying no, or you are afraid that he will end the relationship. If he is at all abusive, whether psychical or emotional (and sometimes it is hard to see the emotional abuse) you should end it now before it is too late. It is better to end it at the first signs then to wait until he has a better hold.
It could also mean that there is something that you want to do and he isn’t being supportive, i.e. he is holding you back.
Lastly, it could mean that you really rely on him for something and you are afraid that he will let you down.
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They might realize they need you and come crawling back!
If you do get back together, don’t let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you’re both going to make it right this time.
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me – her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don’t belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
These dreams are not about you being killed but refer to your inner most feelings for him. They make you feel like you could “die” if you ever broke up.
You might be feeling their is some concerns between the two of you and your subconscious is revealing to you that if the problems are not resolved soon, you might break up and your emotional state would not be able to handle being apart from him.
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you will never regret it.
Put aside your unbelief and Say this prayer so God can come into your life, He is right there waiting, hoping You will make this choice & say it.
He has a plan for your life He can and will help you with everything. He wants you to be the best you can be. He loves you and gave You free will to choose having His unfailing love in your life or not He loved you first and left the door open for you. Its up to you to walk through into His loving arms.
God can help you, If only you ask Him.
If you want to accept Christ as Savior and turn from your sins, you can ask Him to be your Savior and Lord by praying a prayer like this:
“Lord Jesus, I believe You are the Son of God. Thank You for dying on the cross for my sins. Please forgive my sins and give me the gift of eternal life. I ask You in to my life and heart to be my Lord and Savior. I want to serve You always.” Amen
He helped me and I want you to feel his Love too.
Then pass on this prayer to others so they can get to know Gods unfailing love too!
thank you for proving to me that I shouldn’t do drugs… besides… possibly it’s going to bypass away? in case you attempt to seek for help, you will finally end up admitting to lots of people who you adult men did drugs, i think of it is unlawful, so which you in all probability would not want your dad and mom or all people finding out, so possibly in basic terms say and don’t something, regardless of the indisputable fact that possibly communicate on your boyfriend approximately it. regardless of the undeniable fact that it will in all probability end by technique of itself.
if you know your bf you should know if he is capable of such a thing so dont worry about them although i can see why you would be freaked out have you talked to him about these dreams?